Sunday, 24 February 2013

Poem of the Week



This week's poem is The Highwayman by Alfred Noyes.  Maybe it's just me, but I have always found something dangerously romantic about pirates, highwaymen and other rakes from eras long past, so this poem has long been one of my favourites.  Even a little liked high-school English teacher with a knack for butchering any and all works of literature was unable to ruin this poem for me.  I'm going to be stuck on a long road trip today and that got me thinking roads...highway...highwayman... Anyway, since I have about 8 hours on the road ahead of me, I figured it would be only fair to post a bit of a lengthy poem.  I hope your day is more exciting than mine and you enjoy the read!

The Highwayman 
Part One
I

The wind was a torrent of darkness among the gusty trees,
The moon was a ghostly galleon tossed upon cloudy seas,
The road was a ribbon of moonlight over the purple moor,
And the highwayman came riding—
Riding—riding—
The highwayman came riding, up to the old inn-door.

II

He'd a French cocked-hat on his forehead, a bunch of lace at his chin,
A coat of the claret velvet, and breeches of brown doe-skin;
They fitted with never a wrinkle: his boots were up to the thigh!
And he rode with a jewelled twinkle,
His pistol butts a-twinkle,
His rapier hilt a-twinkle, under the jewelled sky.

III

Over the cobbles he clattered and clashed in the dark inn-yard,
And he tapped with his whip on the shutters, but all was locked and barred;
He whistled a tune to the window, and who should be waiting there
But the landlord's black-eyed daughter,
Bess, the landlord's daughter,
Plaiting a dark red love-knot into her long black hair.

IV

And dark in the dark old inn-yard a stable-wicket creaked
Where Tim the ostler listened; his face was white and peaked;
His eyes were hollows of madness, his hair like mouldy hay,
But he loved the landlord's daughter,
The landlord's red-lipped daughter,
Dumb as a dog he listened, and he heard the robber say—

V

'One kiss, my bonny sweetheart, I'm after a prize to-night,
But I shall be back with the yellow gold before the morning light;
Yet, if they press me sharply, and harry me through the day,
Then look for me by moonlight,
Watch for me by moonlight,
I'll come to thee by moonlight, though hell should bar the way.'

VI

He rose upright in the stirrups; he scarce could reach her hand,
But she loosened her hair i' the casement! His face burnt like a brand
As the black cascade of perfume came tumbling over his breast;
And he kissed its waves in the moonlight,
(Oh, sweet, black waves in the moonlight!)
Then he tugged at his rein in the moonliglt, and galloped away to the West.
Part Two

I

He did not come in the dawning; he did not come at noon;
And out o' the tawny sunset, before the rise o' the moon,
When the road was a gypsy's ribbon, looping the purple moor,
A red-coat troop came marching—
Marching—marching—
King George's men came matching, up to the old inn-door.

II

They said no word to the landlord, they drank his ale instead,
But they gagged his daughter and bound her to the foot of her narrow bed;
Two of them knelt at her casement, with muskets at their side!
There was death at every window;
And hell at one dark window;
For Bess could see, through her casement, the road that he would ride.

III

They had tied her up to attention, with many a sniggering jest;
They had bound a musket beside her, with the barrel beneath her breast!
'Now, keep good watch!' and they kissed her.
She heard the dead man say—
Look for me by moonlight;
Watch for me by moonlight;
I'll come to thee by moonlight, though hell should bar the way!

IV

She twisted her hands behind her; but all the knots held good!
She writhed her hands till her fingers were wet with sweat or blood!
They stretched and strained in the darkness, and the hours crawled by like years,
Till, now, on the stroke of midnight,
Cold, on the stroke of midnight,
The tip of one finger touched it! The trigger at least was hers!

V

The tip of one finger touched it; she strove no more for the rest!
Up, she stood up to attention, with the barrel beneath her breast,
She would not risk their hearing; she would not strive again;
For the road lay bare in the moonlight;
Blank and bare in the moonlight;
And the blood of her veins in the moonlight throbbed to her love's refrain .

VI

Tlot-tlot; tlot-tlot! Had they heard it? The horse-hoofs ringing clear;
Tlot-tlot, tlot-tlot, in the distance? Were they deaf that they did not hear?
Down the ribbon of moonlight, over the brow of the hill,
The highwayman came riding,
Riding, riding!
The red-coats looked to their priming! She stood up, straight and still!

VII

Tlot-tlot, in the frosty silence! Tlot-tlot, in the echoing night!
Nearer he came and nearer! Her face was like a light!
Her eyes grew wide for a moment; she drew one last deep breath,
Then her finger moved in the moonlight,
Her musket shattered the moonlight,
Shattered her breast in the moonlight and warned him—with her death.

VIII

He turned; he spurred to the West; he did not know who stood
Bowed, with her head o'er the musket, drenched with her own red blood!
Not till the dawn he heard it, his face grew grey to hear
How Bess, the landlord's daughter,
The landlord's black-eyed daughter,
Had watched for her love in the moonlight, and died in the darkness there.

IX

Back, he spurred like a madman, shrieking a curse to the sky,
With the white road smoking behind him and his rapier brandished high!
Blood-red were his spurs i' the golden noon; wine-red was his velvet coat,
When they shot him down on the highway,
Down like a dog on the highway,
And he lay in his blood on the highway, with the bunch of lace at his throat.

X

And still of a winter's night, they say, when the wind is in the trees,
When the moon is a ghostly galleon tossed upon cloudy seas,
When the road is a ribbon of moonlight over the purple moor,
A highwayman comes riding—
Riding—riding—
A highwayman comes riding, up to the old inn-door.

XI

Over the cobbles he clatters and clangs in the dark inn-yard;
He taps with his whip on the shutters, but all is locked and barred;
He whistles a tune to the window, and who should be waiting there
But the landlord's black-eyed daughter,
Bess, the landlord's daughter,
Plaiting a dark red love-knot into her long black hair. 


Isn't is just so tragically romantic?
-H

Wednesday, 20 February 2013

Under Review | Secret Daughter


I just finished reading Shilpi Somaya Gowda's gorgeous debut novel Secret Daughter, and I am completely awed.  I've had the book sitting on my shelf for about 2 years, and I've picked it up many times, but I wasn't in the right 'headspace' to read the book then.  My mom recently was given a copy of the book by one of her friends and started to read it, which reminded me of my own copy and I decided to give it a try.  I wasn't really sure what to expect but it completely blew me away.  

The book was nuanced, poignant and heart-achingly honest.  The intricacies, trials and triumphs of mother-daughter relationships were navigated with deep insight and careful realism; nothing was over-dramatized or depicted with fictitious perfection.  The realities of struggling mothers, children and families in India was portrayed with a subtlety that  evoked more of an emotional response from the reader than overtly graphic descriptions would have.  I came to love the characters - their faults, their strengths, their hopes, their regrets, their passion.  Writing from various perspectives and having a plot that extends several decades can often be a challenge, but Shilpi Somaya Gowda managed to strengthen her narrative by allowing the reader to see through the eyes of six pivotal characters, and seamlessly carrying the thread of the story through many years so the growth and development of the three main female characters can be clearly expressed.  It was a brilliant tale about family, love, loss, faith, culture, the disparities between genders, classes and nations, and self discovery.

The story certainly wasn't a chapter out of Pleasantville, but it was real.  I'm a big supporter of 'truth' in writing - maybe the plot of a novel has never actually taken place in the 'real world', but the essence of the tale, the personalities and actions of the characters, the likeliness of certain events can all be true to the human experience and the world in which we live.  Reading should challenge you to think, expand your horizons, lay your emotions bare and allow yourself to be vulnerable.  Only then are we truly receptive to a story and able to learn/grow from it.  Secret Daughter certainly facilitates such an experience.

I hope you will consider reading Secret Daughter; I'm giving it five golden-stars and a massive recommendation.  Happy Reading!

- H

Overview


SECRET DAUGHTER is a NY Times, USA Today, IndieBound and #1 International Bestseller. Foreign rights have sold in 23 countries.

Somer's life is everything she imagined it would be — she's newly married and has started her career as a physician in San Francisco — until she makes the devastating discovery she never will be able to have children.

The same year in India, a poor mother makes the heartbreaking choice to save her newborn daughter's life by giving her away. It is a decision that will haunt Kavita for the rest of her life, and cause a ripple effect that travels across the world and back again.

Asha, adopted out of a Mumbai orphanage, is the child that binds the destinies of these two women. We follow both families, invisibly connected until Asha's journey of self-discovery leads her back to India.

Compulsively readable and deeply touching, SECRET DAUGHTER is a story of the unforeseen ways in which our choices and families affect our lives, and the indelible power of love in all its many forms.

Sunday, 17 February 2013

Poem of the Week



This week's poem is Dreams by Langston Hughes.  It's a short and sweet one for a change, but it's message is rather powerful.  I have always believed in the power of dreams and may often be  caught lost in a daydream; to me dreams are how we come to know ourselves, how we connect with our inner longings and core beliefs, how we assess where we're at, where we've come from and where we'd like to go.  Sometimes people tell you that your dreams are foolish, ridiculous or childish, but I feel sorry for those people because they are lacking the beauty of hope in their lives.  Never stop dreaming, never stop fighting for your dreams - we only have one life to live so we should make it count and live it in a way that will leave us with no regrets about missed opportunities or lost hope.  I'd rather be happy and true to myself than successful in terms of some artificial social construct.  I hope that you hold fast to your dreams as well.  Enjoy!

Dreams

Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.

Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow.

- H

Thursday, 14 February 2013

Quotable | Valentine's Edition


I have a thing for quotes.  I'm terrible at remembering them or using them to make snappy comebacks in conversation, but I love them nonetheless.  I've always been amazed by the power of a word, a phrase, a sentence - how one person's words can transcend time and distance to inspire another person a lifetime, a world away.  Sometimes you feel like nobody else understands precisely what you are feeling, experiencing, enduring and then you find a verse from a poem, a line of lyrics from a song, a snippet of a speech given eons ago, and suddenly you realize that you are not alone.  Someone else in the course of human history went through what you are going through and you feel connected to the world, the past, the present and the future because maybe something you say or write or sing will be passed through the ages and resonate with distant generations. 


So yes, I have a thing for quotes so I thought it would be nice to post a bunch of love-related ones in the spirit of the holiday.  Here it goes...

Relationships

If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
- A. A. Milne, Winne-the-Pooh

A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.
- Elbert Hubbard

I wonder what thou and I did, till we loved.  Were we not weaned till then? 
- John Donne

We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.
- Robert Fulghum, True Love 

In vain have I struggled. It will not do. My feelings will not be repressed. You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you. 
- Jane Austen, Pride And Prejudice   

If I had a flower for every time I thought of you...I could walk through my garden forever.
- Alfred Tennyson

Dumbledore watched her fly away, and as her silvery glow faded he turned back to Snape, and his eyes were full of tears.
"After all this time?"
"Always," said Snape.” 

- J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows

No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater...The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that's the key. It's like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot. 
- Sarah Dessen, This Lullaby  

Once upon a time there was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering.
- Nicole Krauss, The History of Love  


“And so the lion fell in love with the lamb…" he murmured. I looked away, hiding my eyes as I thrilled to the word.
"What a stupid lamb," I sighed.
"What a sick, masochistic lion.”  

- Stephenie Meyer, Twilight  
 
"So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday.” 
- Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
 
I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.
-
Pablo Neruda, 100 Love Sonnets 

“I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough..”
- Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
 
“You love me. Real or not real?"
I tell him, "Real.” 
- Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay 

 He was my North, my South, my East and West, My working week and my Sunday rest. 
- W. H. Auden
 
What is Love?

“One is loved because one is loved. No reason is needed for loving.”
- Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist 


You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.
- Dr. Seuss

Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
- The Bible: New Revised Standard Version (NRSV), 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

You're the one who is weak. You will never know love or friendship. And I feel sorry for you.
- J.K. Rowling


To be fond of dancing was a certain step towards falling in love
- Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice  

There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.
- Sarah Dessen, The Truth About Forever 

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.”
- Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones 


Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.
- Robert A. Heinlein, Stranger in a Strange Land 
  
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."  Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
- Erich Fromm 

“Love is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it.”
 - Nicholas Sparks, A Walk to Remember  


Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time; effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.
- Germaine de Stael 
 
Inspirational

Where there is love there is life.
- Mahatma Gandhi 


34 I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.
- The Bible: New Revised Standard Version (NRSV), John 13:34-35

I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.
- Mother Teresa 

  
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.  
- Lao Tzu
 
Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.
- Mother Teresa
  
Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all.
- Alfred Tennyson, In Memoriam

“Charlie, we accept the love we think we deserve.”
- Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower 
 
Love sought is good, but given unsought is better.

- William Shakespeare

Just The Way You Are

We love the things we love for what they are.  
- Robert Frost

Perhaps it is our imperfections that make us so perfect for one another!
- Jane Austen, Emma  

If you judge people, you have no time to love them. 
- Mother Teresa 

“You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they're not.”
 - Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper 

 
Happy Valentine's Day! I hope you can spend it with your loved ones.

Love,
- H

Wednesday, 13 February 2013

Real (Love and Fears)


I recently got a hold of Maroon 5's new(ish) record, Overexposed, and I have found my new favourite song - Love Somebody.  Sometimes love songs are so bloody cheerful you want to lose your lunch; nothing is that perfect, and the fake-ness is pretty disgusting actually.  Other love songs are whiny and morose and generally drive you to bash your head against a hard surface.  Maybe that's just me ... In any event, I like things that are real, honest, open and this song is exactly that.  It is very rare to come across a song about love that has such a degree of realism.

Sometimes we feel broken or empty or both, but it's okay to reach out to someone, to love them and let them love you.  Loving someone isn't easy either, I don't think that any of the truly great things in life are.  Love is big and scary - it isn't a cliche when people say that love changes everything.  You suddenly have a responsibility to another person; you have to put their needs first, be accountable to them, you can no longer make decision on your own.  That's a huge change, so it's only logical for us to feel a bit lost, a little bit adrift because we know that if we make that step and open ourselves up to someone else we can't go back, we can't be the same people we were before.  And sometimes we can't help who we love, we can't stop ourselves from loving someone - we can try to push them away, try to resist the change, but they're already a part of us.  We're halfway there, but we need help from the other person to take the final step.  That's scary too because we have no control over how another person feels, reacts, behaves - we can't make them love us or make them stay.  It's all just a giant leap of faith....

but I think it's worth the risk.

Love,

- H

Love Somebody

I know your inside, you're feeling so hollow
And it's a hard pill for you to swallow
But if I fall for you, I'll never recover
If I fall for you, I'll never be the same

I really wanna love somebody
I really wanna dance the night away
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way

You can take me all the way

I really wanna touch somebody
I think about you every single day
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way

You can take me all the way
You're such a hard act for me to follow
Love me today don't leave me tomorrow, yeah
But if I fall for you, I'll never recover
If I fall for you, I'll never be the same

I really wanna love somebody
I really wanna dance the night away
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way

You can take me all the way
 

I really wanna touch somebody
I think about you every single day
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way 

You can take me all the way
Oh, oh, oh, oh

I don't know where to start, I'm just a little lost
I wanna feel like we never gonna ever stop
I don't know what to do, I'm right in front of you
Asking you to stay, you should stay, stay with me tonight, yeah

I really wanna love somebody
I really wanna dance the night away
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way

You can take me all the way
 

I really wanna touch somebody
I think about you every single day
I know we're only half way there
But you can take me all the way

You can take me all the way
Oh, oh, oh, oh

You can take me all the way 

You can take me all the way

Tuesday, 12 February 2013

Just a Little Romance


I have always been intrigued by the Song of Songs.  The passages of the Bible were chosen very carefully, and it is a known fact that many scrolls, many authors were left out because at the time of compilation they were not deemed to be acceptable.  So why leave in such a blatantly romantic, rather sensual love poem? It baffles me. My teachers used to explain it away with "divine inspiration" when the Bible was compiled and religious leaders needing to show examples of what matrimony should be like between a man and woman, but I never really bought any of that.  The Song of Songs just seems so out of character for the religious textbook - the tone, the style, the content all stick out like a sore thumb.  But it's beautiful.  I'm inclined to believe that someone allowed it to sneak in because they were simply struck by its beauty, its openness and rawness.  Being the silly romantic that I am, I just want to believe that when people were setting down the foundations of my faith, that someone at the table was just a little romantic too...

Song of Solomon 1
 

The Song of Songs, which is Solomon’s.

Colloquy of Bride and Friends
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine,
    your anointing oils are fragrant,
your name is perfume poured out;
    therefore the maidens love you.
Draw me after you, let us make haste.
    The king has brought me into his chambers.
We will exult and rejoice in you;
    we will extol your love more than wine;
    rightly do they love you.

I am black and beautiful,
    O daughters of Jerusalem,
like the tents of Kedar,
    like the curtains of Solomon.
Do not gaze at me because I am dark,
    because the sun has gazed on me.
My mother’s sons were angry with me;
    they made me keeper of the vineyards,
    but my own vineyard I have not kept!
Tell me, you whom my soul loves,
    where you pasture your flock,
    where you make it lie down at noon;
for why should I be like one who is veiled
    beside the flocks of your companions?

If you do not know,
    O fairest among women,
follow the tracks of the flock,
    and pasture your kids
    beside the shepherds’ tents.

Colloquy of Bridegroom, Friends, and Bride
I compare you, my love,
    to a mare among Pharaoh’s chariots.
10 Your cheeks are comely with ornaments,
    your neck with strings of jewels.
11 We will make you ornaments of gold,
    studded with silver.

12 While the king was on his couch,
    my nard gave forth its fragrance.
13 My beloved is to me a bag of myrrh
    that lies between my breasts.
14 My beloved is to me a cluster of henna blossoms
    in the vineyards of En-gedi.

15 Ah, you are beautiful, my love;
    ah, you are beautiful;
    your eyes are doves.
16 Ah, you are beautiful, my beloved,
    truly lovely.
Our couch is green;
17     the beams of our house are cedar,
    our rafters are pine.

- The Bible: New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)

For what its worth, I'm very glad that this poem made it in. 
 
Love,
- H

Monday, 11 February 2013

John & Fanny

The engagement ring Keats gave to his love Fanny Brawne.
I am an eternal romantic, so in honour of Valentine's day I have decided to post some achingly beautiful romantic writings each day this week, up to Thursday.  Although I love romance, I am not all that great at channeling it so I shall borrow the works of others.  Not everything that I post will be a sunshine and rainbow, happily-ever-after sort of love story.  Some will be heart breaking and tragic, others bittersweet or unrequited because that's real ... that's love and we can't change it.

Today's post is one of the many letters written by the brilliant poet John Keats for the love of his life Fanny Brawne.  Their love was an ill-fated one - they were engaged but John's poverty and poor health prevented them from marrying and then John died tragically of tuberculosis at the brutally young age of 25, only three years after meeting Fanny.  However brief their time together, the pair was so deeply in love, a meeting of minds and spirits that few people are lucky to find.  I wholeheartedly recommend that you watch the movie Bright Star (2009) based on their story; it is such a beautiful film, although you may want to keep a box of tissues close by.

Love,

- H

Postmark: July 27, 1819
Sunday Night

My sweet Girl—I hope you did not blame me much for not obeying your request of a Letter on Saturday: we have had four in our small room playing at cards night and morning leaving me no undisturb'd opportunity to write. Now Rice and Martin are gone I am at liberty. Brown to my sorrow confirms the account you give of your ill health. You cannot conceive how I ache to be with you: how I would die for one hour—for what is in the world? I say you cannot conceive; it is impossible you should look with such eyes upon me as I have upon you: it cannot be.
Forgive me if I wander a little this evening, for I have been all day employ'd in a very abstract Poem and I am in deep love with you two things which must excuse me. I have, believe me, not been an age in letting you take possession of me; the very first week I knew you I wrote myself your vassal; but burnt the Letter as the very next time I saw you I thought you manifested some dislike to me. If you should ever feel for Man at the first sight what I did for you, I am lost. Yet I should not quarrel with you, but hate myself if such a thing were to happen—only I should burst if the thing were not as fine as a Man as you are as a Woman.
Perhaps I am too vehement, then fancy me on my knees, especially when I mention a part of your Letter which hurt me; you say speaking of Mr. Severn 'but you must be satisfied in knowing that I admired you much more than your friend.' My dear love, I cannot believe there ever was or ever could be any thing to admire in me especially as far as sight goes—I cannot be admired, I am not a thing to be admired. You are, I love you; all I can bring you is a swooning admiration of your Beauty. I hold that place among Men which snub-nos'd brunettes with meeting eyebrows do among women—they are trash to me—unless I should find one among them with a fire in her heart like the one that burns in mine.
You absorb me in spite of myself—you alone: for I look not forward with any pleasure to what is called being settled in the world; I tremble at domestic cares—yet for you I would meet them, though if it would leave you the happier I would rather die than do so.
I have two luxuries to brood over in my walks, your Loveliness and the hour of my death. O that I could have possession of them both in the same minute. I hate the world: it batters too much the wings of my self-will, and would I could take a sweet poison from your lips to send me out of it. From no others would I take it. I am indeed astonish'd to find myself so careless of all charms but yours—remembering as I do the time when even a bit of ribband was a matter of interest with me.
What softer words can I find for you after this—what it is I will not read. Nor will I say more here, but in a Postscript answer any thing else you may have mentioned in your Letter in so many words—for I am distracted with a thousand thoughts. I will imagine you Venus tonight and pray, pray, pray to your star like a Heathen.
Your's ever, fair Star,

   

My seal is mark'd like a family table cloth with my Mother's initial F for Fanny: put between my Father's initials. You will soon hear from me again. My respectful Compliments to your Mother. Tell Margaret I'll send her a reef of best rocks and tell Sam I will give him my light bay hunter if he will tie the Bishop hand and foot and pack him in a hamper and send him down for me to bathe him for his health with a Necklace of good snubby stones about his Neck.

Sunday, 10 February 2013

Poem of the Week


This week's poem is Bright Star by John Keats.  Keats wrote this poem for his betrothed and true love Fanny Brawne.  Their tale is tragic and beautiful, immortalized by their many correspondences as well as Keats gorgeous poems dedicated to Fanny.  I hope you are as moved by this poem as I am.  Enjoy!

Bright Star

Bright star, would I were stedfast as thou art--
Not in lone splendour hung aloft the night
And watching, with eternal lids apart,
Like nature's patient, sleepless Eremite,
The moving waters at their priestlike task
Of pure ablution round earth's human shores,
Or gazing on the new soft-fallen mask
Of snow upon the mountains and the moors--
No--yet still stedfast, still unchangeable,
Pillow'd upon my fair love's ripening breast,
To feel for ever its soft fall and swell,
Awake for ever in a sweet unrest,
Still, still to hear her tender-taken breath,
And so live ever--or else swoon to death. 


Love, 

- H

P. S. Many of John Keats most famous poems were written between 1818 when he and Fanny met, and his untimely death in 1821.

P.P.S. I want a love like that.  Well, minus the tuberculosis and poverty and dying young parts.

Friday, 8 February 2013

Snowpocalypse


So, today we got hit with a crazy snow storm; like a foot of snow within 3 hours sort of storm.  Even though it's been nastily cold we've had pretty much no snow all winter so it was sort of nice in a I-hope-the-powerlines-don't-get-knocked-out-please-no-eating-pasta-sauce-and-beans-out-of-a-can kind of way.  Oddly enough it was pretty sunny out the whole time.  I mean couldn't actually point out the sphere of the sun through all the hazy clouds laden with their snowy burdens, but it was bright enough for their to be light streaming through my windows.  That was a bit unusual for such a heavy duty storm.

But the pièce de résistance was .... SNOW DAY!!! Yes, a honest to goodness, almost the entire town shuts down sort of snow day.  That made excessively happy.  Firstly, because I haven't had a snow day in about five years and snow days are epic, a priori.  Secondly, and most importantly in this instance, because it meant that an essay, presentation and midterm were all postponed (yay!).  And lastly ... well I was just really tired and didn't want to leave the warm cocoon of my bed ....

So, how was your Friday?

TGIF,

- H

Monday, 4 February 2013

Annual Handegg Tournament

It only makes sense people.

I am not a fan of sports.  Sure every few years I get caught up in the excitement of the Olympic games, but that's mostly because it's incredible to see the whole world come together like that and also because I love classical history so I'm a fan of anything reminiscent of ancient Greece. [Aside:  I was in Greece this summer and was able to visit Olympus, the site of the original Olympic games (although other sites such as Delphi offered their own version of the athletic gathering).  It was absolutely awe-inspiring; actually the whole trip was incredible, I was breathless for pretty much the entire 17 days.  If you haven't been to Greece, but it on your bucket list - it is absolutely my favourite place in the whole world, especially the islands.]  Aside from the Olympic frenzy, I just cannot get interested in sporting events.  I've been taken out to NBA, PGA and MLB games, but I remained unimpressed and felt guilty for sitting there distracting myself with my phone or a novel when die-hard fans could have attended the games in my stead. 

In all honesty, I don't see point in rushing around chasing after a ridiculous little object and taking a beating in the process.  Why would you sign yourself up for that?  Mind you, I was a dancer, a skater and a (competitive not sports) cheerleader so I am no stranger to self-inflicted pain and probably have no right to criticize.  At least my athletic pursuits were creative though, you can watch and see the story being told, the raw emotion, the artistry.  You can't find that in hockey and football, or maybe I'm not looking hard enough.  The irony is that my mother was actually a professional cheerleader for football, so she positively adores the game, and has tried in vain for the entirety of my life to get me as excited about it as she is ... sorry Mamma. 

So, last night was the forty-something-th Superbowl.  My mom was rooting on San Francisco for some highly technically reason, while I decided to lend my feeable support to the Ravens, because I learned from a news show that Michael Oher, of The Blindside notoriety, was on that team.  It was a wonderful, deeply emotional movie ... so yeah, that's my very scientific method of choosing a team.

I skipped most of the show, popped in for the half-time performance, and a few 'stunning' playback moments, and was pleasantly surprised when 'my team' took home the trophy.  Mainly because it was really funny to tease my mom about, but also because I was happy for Oher and the Tuohy family. Aside from that, my most overriding reaction was shock at the absolutely, positively, absurd amount of money that gets poured into a single sports game ... I can think of at least a hundred better uses of that cash.  Wow...

- H

P.S. Like a true nerd, I had a good laugh at this tweet regarding last night's game:


P.P.S.  Although I do not like watching sports, I can appreciate their intrinsic value (I have done research on the numerous benefits of recreational therapy), and I also support athleticism in terms of staying healthy and in tune with your own body.

Sunday, 3 February 2013

Poem of the Week


This week's poem is Paradise by Louis Jenkins.  This week is busy, busy, stressful,crazy, busy, busy, busy.  So yes I do wish that I could escape to paradise even just for an hour or two; actually a week would be nice, or a month, but I'll take what I can get.  I'm just trying to stay calm, stay centred and keep on keeping on until everything is done and I can finally take a breath.  I think we all could do with a friendly reminder to stop and collect ourselves no matter how hectic things get.  Enjoy!

Paradise

January finally drags into February and one fumbles with
numb fingers at the ordinary knots and hooks of life. People
are irritable, difficult. Some days you want to stay in bed
with the covers over your head and dream of paradise. A
place where the warm sea washes the white sand. There
are a few palm trees on the higher ground, many brightly
colored fish in the lagoon, waves breaking on the reef
farther out. No one in sight. Occasionally an incredibly
large, split-second shark darkens the clear water. Sea birds
ride the wind currents, albatross, kittiwake, … and pass
on. Day after day, sea wind and perfect sky … You make a
big heap of driftwood on the beach.

Keep Calm and DFTBA!

- H

Saturday, 2 February 2013

Listography | Television for Nerds



I really enjoy television and cinema.  As much as I adore reading, there's just something about visual dramatizations that is really gripping.  Sure I can imagine things in my head, but it's also nice to actually see the emotions and action and interpersonal dynamics.  What I do have a problem with is bad TV... Maybe that's mean, so let me rephrase.  I do not enjoy watching reality shows that bear little to no resemblance to the actual reality of 99% of the population, or very stereotypical and predictable shows about catty teens, the "popular crowd" and overly tame supernatural creatures.  I'm also a huge wimp when it comes to horror or scary movies, so it can be rather challenging to find a show or movie that I can truly enjoy and become engrossed in.

As a self-identified nerd, I can find it hard to relate to a lot of the more mainstream shows or movies, that's why I get lost in a wave of giddy excitement when I find the perfect nerdy franchise.  That's not to say that these shows for nerds can't be popular, quite the opposite often times; its just that they are unique and thoughtful and nuanced and oh-so-wonderful.  A lot of my favourites I wasn't exposed until quite recently, but to be fair, I spent most of my younger years with my nose in a book and when I did turn on the tube it was generally to watch an adaptation of a classic novel or the Discovery Channel.  Now I'm pretty much caught up with many series, so I've been searching for new (or new to me) nerdy goodness to enjoy.


It's a three patch problem...


Here is a list of the show/movies that I love to watch (in no particular order):
  • Sherlock BBC (What is it like in your funny little brains? It must be so boring!)
  • The Big Bang Theory (Bazinga! So many references to science and nerd culture it's fantastic, and of course Sheldon Cooper...)
  • Murdoch Mysteries (a very inventive show where a 19th Century Toronto police detective/amateur inventor solves baffling crimes and encounters many of the most influential figures of the time such as Nikola Tesla, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Harry Houdini, Alexander Graham Bell and Winston Churchill.) 
  • Game of Thrones (incredible show and great, albeit very lengthy, books.  I have so many wild theories about what direction this saga is going to take.  I just wish G. R. R. Martin wasn't so ruthless in his killing of some of my favourite characters, and that he would cut down the 5 year gaps between the novels...)
  • Firefly (grrr... why FOX why?! One season just isn't enough.)
  • Harry Potter (I adore the books, love the movies, spend hours on Pottermore even though I'm too old for it...)
  • Lord of the Rings (I can't believe how intricate these movies are! There are so many little details, so much effort put into truly creating an entire other world. Also, I watched all three extended movies in one day...)
  • Suits (the tales of a brilliant young lawyer who never actually went to law school...)
  • The Skulls (a terrifying look into the secret society of a American Ivy League college)
  • Batman Trilogy (Christopher Nolan is a genius, I love that it's so gritty, no goody-two-shoes heroes here.  I'm really annoyed that there are already plans for a reboot.  If it ain't broke, don't fix it.)
  • Spider-Man (sorry Andrew Garfield but it's gotta be Tobey Maguire all the way!)
  • X-Men Franchise (even though I always notice the little inconsistencies and it drives me crazy)
  • The whole Marvel/Avengers world (the best part is all the interconnected end scenes.)
  • Alphas (X-Men meets CSI in this brilliant Syfy original series.)
  • Touch (this is a deeply moving series even if some of the math is made up.)
  • Once Upon a Time (ok, yes, sometimes the acting can be strained and the whole show boarders on overly cheesy, but I have always loved fairy tales and I am impressed at how they are able to interweave all the stories I grew up with.) 
 
An edible depiction of The Einstein Approximation, one of my personal favourites.




 Now for the series I am currently exploring:
  • Doctor Who (I'm only two episodes into the 2005 series, but it already seems pretty amazing.  I finally realized that his name isn't Dr. Who, but Doctor ... who? *puzzled face*)
  • Star Wars (I've seen the first three movies, and by that I mean the original three, so episodes IV - VI.  I'm excited for the prequels,but my friend can't seem to get a hold of the DVDs...) 
  • The Matrix (Keanu Reeves ... I need to stop right here otherwise I will embarrass myself, but suffice it to say I had a stupid grin on my face the whole time ... so lovely, *sigh*.  I've only seen the first movie and I've heard it goes down from there but the premise is so brilliant it gives me a headache.)
  •  Do No Harm (I'm not sure if this qualifies as nerdy, but based on the pilot episode it seems like a pretty promising adaptation of Jekyll and Hyde.)
    The woes of an empire soldier.

What I would like to check out next:

  • Star Trek (this is a quintessential nerdy enterprise - ha ha - and with the new movie featuring Sherlock's brilliant Benedict Cumberbatch I feel like I need to educate myself on this intergalactic series.)
  • Misfits (my friend raved about this series and I have a lot of faith in British television so I'm looking forward to trying it out.)
  • S.H.I.E.L.D. (I think this is still in production, but I am very excited for this Avengers spin-off, it will be interesting to see the Avengers project from another angle, as we usually are only exposed to the superhero perspective.)
  • Merlin (I've heard mixed reviews about this show, and after being bitterly disappointed by the short-lived Camelot, I'm a bit nervous; but I love the King Arthur story so I think it's worth a shot.)
  • Avatar the Last Airbender (I'm not exactly a fan of animated television shows, but I have heard so many great things about it that I could be tempted to test out a few episodes.)
  • Downton Abbey (again, I'm not to sure how this will turn out, also not sure if it counts as nerdy, but I enjoy period dramas so I'm willing to try.)
 So, this was a fun post.  I think I might watch another episode of Doctor Who now.  What are your favourite nerdy series?

Flaunt your inner (or outer) nerd and DFTBA!

- H

P.S.  Brits really know what they are doing when it comes to entertainment; Sherlock, LotR, Harry Potter, Misfits, Merlin, Downton Abbey all have British roots.

P.P.S.  There is something deliciously wonderful about a man in a long, dark coat ... Keanu Reeves as Neo (The Matrix), Kit Harington as Jon Snow (Game of Thrones) and Benedict Cumberbatch as Sherlock. WOW!